Posted by: alqamardesigns | February 23, 2008

Your mother, next your mother, next your mother and then your father…


In the famous hadith, a man came to the Prophet (SAW) and asked:

“O Messenger of Allah! to whom should I show kindness? He replied: Your mother, next your mother, next your mother, and then comes your father…” (Sunan Abu Dawud)

The Quran also discusses the immense honor and respect due to both parents, and especially to mother:

“And We have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination.” (Luqman 31:14)

“Your Lord has commanded that you shall not worship (anyone) but Him and to be good to the parents. If either or both of them reach old age with you, say not to them (so much as) ‘Ugh’ nor chide them, and speak to them a generous word. And lower for them ‘the wings of humility’ out of mercy; and pray; ‘O my Lord! Have mercy on them as they brought me up (when I was) little.'” (17:23-24)

Imam Ali bin Hussein, the great-grandson of the Prophet (SAW) said:

It is the right of your mother that you should appreciate that she carried you [in her womb] the way nobody carries anybody, She fed you the fruits of her heart which nobody feeds anybody. She protected you [during pregnancy] with her ears, eyes, hands, legs, hair, limbs, [in short] with her whole being, gladly, cheerfully, and carefully; suffering patiently all the worries, pains, difficulties, and sorrows. Till the hand of God removed you from her and brought you into this world. Then she was most happy, feeding you forgetting her own hunger, clothing you even if she herself had no clothes, giving you milk and water not caring for her own thirst, keeping you in the shade, even if she had to suffer from the heat of the sun, giving you every comfort with her own hardships; lulling you to sleep while keeping herself awake.

May Allah have mercy on our parents, guide them, bless them, forgive them and grant them a high place in Jannah, .. may He (SWT) help us to keep our duty to Him and them, and not fall short in fulfilling the rights our parents have over us, ameen.

Related Post: Be in awe of Allah and of the wombs (that bore you). An Nisa, Ayat 1


  1. Mash’Allah, Alhamdullilah, It’s great to be a mother!

  2. Alhamdulilllah sister.. may Allah bless and guide you, and your mother. Ameen

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